The power of self-belief

It's far too easy to give up on your dreams when you doubt yourself. Often these doubts are the result of your own insecurities, or from taking on the opinions and beliefs of others and making them your own. The modern world is designed to make you believe you can have anything you want. This is relatively true, however, the missing ingredient is often self belief that you can achieve something you have never experienced for yourself.

When you stop and think about life, why should it be more plausible for one person to achieve a desire than it is for someone else. Often we see the end result of a person's success, without fully appreciating or understanding the work that it has taken to reach this success. We assume it was easy for them and thus much too hard for us to achieve. This is why autobiographies are so important to read. They often give us an insight into the planning and dedication that has led to success. Actors are a great example of this. Naomi Watts was struggling for years, working in cafe's etc. Despite having incredible contacts in the industry, it took dedication and self belief to trust that eventually she would get her lucky break. If she had thrown in the towel a few years earlier, who knows where she would have ended up in her career. There are countless stories like this.

The keys to achieving your desires are:

• Believing 100% that you have the ability and right to achieve anything you put your mind to
• Setting out a plan to make it happen
• Working through your plan - unwaveringly
• Reassessing your plan and tweaking it along the way to find what's working and what's not
• Taking opportunities as they arise

If you simply trust that as humans we can achieve the most incredible things, then you have no reason NOT to trust that you too can achieve the greatness you desire and aspire to achieve.

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Finding joy in the fortune of others

Often we find it difficult to be happy for ple who have things we really want ($, love, family, success) because it reminds us of what we want but don't have. However, what others have has no impact on your ability to have it too. By focussing on being happy for others and then trusting that you can have it too, you relax and enjoy their success.

You may want children and feel upset every time you see a pregnant woman because it reminds you of what you're missing. However, if you trust the law of attraction (Abrahram - Jerry & Ester Hicks), you'll see if you can find happiness in the joy each pregnant woman feels, you bring yourself closer to the vibration of being pregnant yourself. One thing you know for sure, focussing on jealousy and anger does not bring you closer to having the things you really desire. Find more inspiration at www.happylife.net.au

Focus on your strengths

Focus on your strengths. When you find your passion, make it your mission to become the expert in this passion. When you become an expert, your skills are more valuable and others will seek your expertise. Think about the areas in which you excel and from which you find enjoyment and fulfillment.This is where you need to concentrate. For instance, say "yes" to taking on more of these tasks at work and delegate or spend less time on the areas that you struggle in. Why try to be an expert at something you don't enjoy and are not really that good at? It only detracts you from the areas your ARE good at. Take the pressure off yourself to have to try to be the best at EVERYTHING. Outsource where possible (and viable) too, in order to allow your mind to be clear and to focus on what you do well. The specialist is paid more, is respected more for that skill and is sought after for that skill too. It doesn't matter what it is, people will search for and pay for the best in a chosen field. Find more inspiration at http://www.happylife.net.au/

The power of visualisation

When you visualize your goals and desires on a daily basis, there comes a point when you notice a shift in the visualisation. At that point it moves from seeing your goal in front of you, to experiencing your goal as though you are living it. I had this experience recently when I was doing my regular visualising. All of a sudden the vision moved from somewhere in front of me to engulfing me. I felt like I was there, actually undertaking all the things I was visualising. This is when the feeling changed from being something in the future to feeling as though I was experiencing it now. I could see then what all the gurus of the law of attraction are talking about. It takes time and persistence to do these visualisations every single day, but these shifts give you a taste of the power of the mind to change your life and create the future you desire. Find more inspiration at http://www.happylife.net.au/

Accept your life and move on

We compare ourselves to others all the time. Sometimes you might find yourself thinking its not fair that things seem so easy for others and start to get angry/frustrated/down because certain things seem harder for you than they appear for others. Besides appreciating that everyone had their issues, it's important to reach a state of acceptance of the life you have been given. Then to pick yourself up and declare that you have a choice to change things. It might be tougher in that one area you want to change, but you can do it and it's so... Worth the effort. www.happylife.net.au

What's your roadblock?

If you're not seeing yourself getting closer to what you desire, it's likely you don't really have faith in yourself that you can achieve it or sustain it. Often when you have wanted something for a long time - the state of uncertainty and desire is what you know and feel comfortable with.

In order to avoid self sabotage it's important to live in the moment and ignore the outcome because the outcome is the unknown. And the unknown will ALWAYS be scarier than the present state - even if you're unhappy with where you are now.

Trust that you're taking the right steps. Believe you can do it. There is no blueprint that states one person will succeed over another. If there was, every wealthy child with a great family would be set for life.

YOU are the creator of your destiny.

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Change your focus this christmas

At Christmas is easy to focus on what's missing in your life - people that are no longer with you, opportunities that you've missed, or dreams that you haven't yet achieved. However, there is another story which is just as valid. The story of all the things you have achieved over the past year and all the people who have come into your life and have remained in your life as well - particularly those that love and support you unconditionally. It's easy to think... "that's not enough", because your focus is often future or past orientated. But don't discount these great things in your life.

How many people are you buying gifts for this holiday season? Why are you buying them gifts? What do they mean to you and how have they shown you how much you mean to them over the years?

They say that those who are given a disability in this life are the fortunate ones because they have the gift of love of life. They appreciate a lot more than others and are even said to be more enlightened spiritually as a result of this gift.

Take the opportunity this Christmas to put your desires in perspective. YES .... they may enhance parts of your life, but if you look closely you will see you have many wonderful things in your life RIGHT NOW that you might just be neglecting.